di era jew kuat pengaruhi kita, hanya tuhan yang tau isi hati ini sama ada solehah mahupun munafik... klik imej 4 more.

TAKE THAT... LOL.

public form mansuh wajib mati = jika famili mangsa dalam islam maaf dah lepas...

jheat @ jahat?

murtad jelah jika anti islam ori, gemuk hodoh tak bertudung lagi...

Men, your wives are not doormats

2011/07/03

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NAM Institute For the Empowerment Of Women Malaysia (NIEW) chief executive officer Tan Sri Dr Rafiah Salim believes women should stop trying to be superwomen

NAM Institute For the Empowerment Of Women Malaysia (NIEW) chief executive officer Tan Sri Dr Rafiah Salim says that the new policy will allow for a change of paradigm by all, especially husbands.

"People always forget that family is not the responsibility of a woman, it's a joint responsibility in law, religion and whatever angle you look at. Stop the nonsense about families suffering because women are taking on bigger responsibilities at work.

"For a change, it's about time men realise that they are equally responsible, they should share the burden for the sake of the country. Why should the man come home in the evening, sit happily in the living room and read the papers while the woman, who has been slogging in the office, rush home to care for the baby and cook all the meals for her family?

"Even worse, there are men who sit down and say to their wives, 'ambilkan air untuk saya' (get me some water) -- they sound like invalids. It's about time these types of men change their lifestyles. This mentality is purely cultural. Don't just know how to make babies, also learn how to take care of them; take equal responsibility."

Rafiah believes that women should also make conscious changes to their own behaviour.

"It's important for women today not to give in to the nonsense of having to do everything, from mothering to cooking. The woman of today is not superwoman, she must change her way of life.

"Who says she's the best nappy changer? Leave that to the maid or helper. Her precious time should be spent on the intellectual development of her children.

"Who says she needs to cook every day? These days, you can order food to be sent to your home. If her husband doesn't like it, maybe he can try cooking for himself. Women must learn to manage.

"I'm a firm believer that a woman must respect her husband, but that doesn't mean she has to be a doormat. We need a paradigm change by all, and this policy is the catalyst to achieve that."

The glass ceiling, Rafiah believes, has been too thick, for far too long.

"That's why you find a huge number of women at number two and three positions, there are very few who are at the number one position in any corporation. It's such a tough fight for women to get to that spot.

"I wouldn't say that Malaysian men are chauvinistic; it's definitely not by design. It's just natural instinct, if you're a man, you're more comfortable working with other men.

Rafiah says when she was assistant secretary general of the United Nations (UN), she was already implementing this policy under the guidance and authority of UN's then secretary general, Kofi Annan, whereby whenever there was a top post with two equally good candidates, the woman always got the job.

Comparing the situation today to decades ago, the focus from education to workforce contribution is a natural progression, Rafiah believes.

"Now that we've invested so much in educating girls, why aren't we looking at the ROI (return on investment)? You invest in them but are limiting their contributions, we need to realise that investing in women is good economy.

However, policy and men aside, women must first come out of their shells, Rafiah believes.

"Women must make attitude changes, they must be more confident about accepting promotions and bigger jobs. Unfortunately, many women tend to be scared. When men are offered a bigger job, you never hear them say, 'Hold on, let me check with my wife'."

Read more: Men, your wives are not doormats http://www.nst.com.my/nst/articles/03womantop3/Article#ixzz1R46rXdWW

jihad pena la ni...

http://utusan.com.my/utusan/info.asp?y=2011&dt=0625&pub=Utusan_Malaysia&sec=Luar_Negara&pg=lu_08.htm amnesty agen yahudi... hati2 semua! lu tak mau masuk islam, jangan suruh orang islam jadi kapir lak DAN jika lu tak suka islam, jadilah murtad berbanding lu ajak orang sama anti islam, cara?

biar putih tulang...

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Debunking sexual myths

2011/06/11

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BATHING or showering after sex is an effective form of contraception, and the "withdrawal method" is a sure bet when wanting to avoid pregnancy -- shockingly, that's what most of our sexually active youth believe.

Most of them are not very familiar with the different contraceptive options available, and were reported to be part of the group that viewed contraception preparation to be "not so important" compared with other countries within the region.

These results were revealed by the "Contraception: Whose responsibility is it anyway?" survey, which was carried out between April and May last year.

During the survey, a total of 5,253 interviews were conducted among 5,000 young people aged between 15 and 24 across Asia Pacific, Europe, North America and Latin America. In Malaysia, 200 youths aged between 18 and 21 participated.

The survey was supported by a coalition of 10 international organisations with an interest in sexual health and the Youth Task Force, a group of young people from around the world.

The results highlighted a significant disconnect between young people's attitudes to accepting responsibility for contraception.

Prof Dr Jamiyah Hassan, an obstetrics and gynaecology senior consultant at University Malaya Medical Centre, believes that many Malaysian youth are misguided because of various myths surrounding the topic.

"Most of the youth I have seen who've had unplanned pregnancy are very naive about the outcome of unprotected sex, especially females. There's a lot of myths and pressure from peers to conform to a certain behaviour, which is deemed to be the 'norm'.

"For instance, some youngsters believe that showering after sex will prevent pregnancy. This is completely false as good sperms will reach the uterine cavity within minutes and all you need is one sperm to fertilise the ovum to get pregnant.

"There are some other common myths that I've heard throughout the years, like having sex one week before mid-cycle -- the 'safe' period -- will avoid pregnancy. This theory is also unfounded.

"Another myth is that if you douche immediately after sex, you'll avoid pregnancy. Of course, this is false as sperms are very smart, they swim much, much faster.

"Some youths also believe that if you have sex while the woman stands up, the sperm does not swim up. Let's clear this up; the sperm swims up through the secretions in the vagina and also the seminal fluid. Some ejaculation may trickle out from the vagina but again, many millions would have already swam up.

"Heavy petting, ejaculating out of the vagina or with underwear on will not keep pregnancy at bay. I have seen pregnancy in young girls who've had heavy petting but no penetration at all."

She said our society definitely had a problem with this matter and would need to increase awareness of reproductive health, especially contraception.

"Despite the fact that almost 80 per cent of respondents from this region believe they are responsible for contraception, it is worrying that 47 per cent of sexually active young people admit to having had sex without contraception.

"I believe this contradictory behaviour stems from a psychological concept known as 'personal fable', which proposes that teenagers believe that they are special and unique and that nothing bad will happen to them.

"This explains why teenagers are often focused on the present, with little consideration of the long-term consequences of their behaviour, future plans and personal values. Teenagers may think that having sex without contraception is fine because the consequences 'will never happen to me'," said Charis Wong, counselling psychologist and US licensed marriage and family therapist associate.

Federation of Reproductive Health Association's family planning and reproductive health officer Kalpana Devi Rajantran said that it was worrying that more and more youth were seeking advice on abortions.

"One just has to look at the situation and realise that our society is facing a problem which is getting worse. In my opinion, kids are getting involved in sexual acts at a much younger age than before, and they are seeking help to terminate pregnancy because they can't handle it.

"Many of them are misguided by their own peers who feed them wrong information about contraception. Many find themselves in a fix when they get pregnant and aren't able to get help.

"Youth need to know that there isn't a 100 per cent foolproof method of contraception. Although condoms are the safest options, if you don't use it properly and consistently, you might get pregnant."

Tania Boler of Marie Stopes International, an NGO supporter of World Contraception Day, said: "What is clear from this new data is that much work still needs to be done about the number of young people using contraception, especially if we want to reduce the number of adolescent unwanted pregnancies by 2015, which is an indicator for Millennium Development Goal 5 - improve maternal health."

Read more: Debunking sexual myths http://www.nst.com.my/nst/articles/05avcon-2/Article#ixzz1P365TncO

bekas al arqam tak layak tubuh NGO... otherwise memalukan islam jer!? repot polis terhadap GISB?!

Al-Arqam still active under different guises

2011/06/10
By Hariz Mohd
harizm@nst.com.my
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One of Global Ikhwan Sdn Bhd’s operation centres in Bandar Country Homes in Rawang. Many of its members are seen conducting their businesses and congregational activities at a small field in the township.
KUALA LUMPUR: Al-Arqam, the banned religious movement, is still active, with more than 5,000 members throughout the country and operating under different names.
Currently led by its late founder Ashaari Muhammad's wife, Khadijah Aam, authorities believe its members are still aggressive in spreading the movement's aurad muhammadiah doctrine.

The doctrine was declared a deviant by the Federal Government in 1994, leading to the ban.


Jakim director-general Othman Mustapha said its members and their activities were being monitored not only by Jakim but also the state religious departments and other enforcement agencies.

"Although they are trying to evade detection by changing the name several times, we know for a fact that the movement is still very much alive. It is the same Al-Arqam."

He said the group was first found trying to revive the movement under the name Rufaqa but later changed it after they were detected by the authorities.


"When Al-Arqam was banned, they had about 10,000 members nationwide and we had to spent a substantial amount of money to bring them back to the true teachings of Islam.

"We held continuous programmes for them, with the help of state religious departments," he told the New Straits Times yesterday.

"However, there is still a large number of them who are still adamant and continue to practise its teachings. They have been found to be very active in recruiting new members and spreading the doctrine.


"From information gathered, we found that they now have at least 5,000 active members nationwide and the latest, we found that they have registered the movement as Global Ikhwan Sdn Bhd.

"Despite all the different names, they are still the very same Al-Arqam."

Othman said initial investigations showed that its members were detected in almost all the states, including Selangor.

"Since Al-Arqam's ban, religious authorities have been keeping surveillance on its ex-members' activities to ensure that the group is not revived.

"Once we gather all the proof and confirmation, we will move in," he said.

Al-Arqam was one of the biggest Islamic non-government organisations in the 1990s.

Its members were active in spreading the doctrine through religious activities until they were declared a deviant group by the National Fatwa Council.

Ashaari had claimed that he was a prophet and predicted that he would be the prime minister after former prime minister Tun Dr Mahathir Mohamad.



Read more: Al-Arqam still active under different guises http://www.nst.com.my/nst/articles/4hharqam/Article#ixzz1OzfHZEvW

masitah lak suruh zina... ke reverse psycho nih?

Gaga nasihat peminat remaja hindar amalan seks bebas


HOLLYWOOD: Penyanyi Lady Gaga menasihati peminat remajanya supaya tidak mengamalkan seks bebas.

Gaga ingin peminatnya mengekalkan kesucian mereka hingga mereka benar-benar yakin untuk melakukan hubungan intim. Penyanyi lagu hit ‘Born This Way’ itu mengakui dia pernah mengamalkan seks bebas ketika zaman remajanya. Bukan saja itu, malah dia juga pernah mengadakan hubungan intim bersama kaum sejenis. Namun, Gaga tidak mahu peminatnya mengikut jejaknya.


“Saya fikir remaja perlu menunggu hingga mereka benar-benar yakin untuk melakukan seks,” katanya sebagaimana dipetik dalam Showbiz Spy, semalam.

Di sebalik nasihat itu, wanita kelahiran 28 Mac 1986 itu menganggap seks bahagian terpenting dalam hidupnya selepas muzik. Penyanyi yang sudah merakamkan tiga album itu menyifatkan seks boleh menjadi inspirasi kepada sesetengah orang. - Agensi

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Mashitah selar suami peralat isteri


2011/06/08

KANGAR: Timbalan Menteri di Jabatan Perdana Menteri, Datuk Dr Mashitah Ibrahim, menyelar segelintir suami yang menjadikan isteri semata-mata tempat melepaskan nafsu seks tanpa memikirkan kepentingan hidup berkeluarga.

Katanya, perkahwinan yang digalakkan oleh Islam adalah untuk menjamin keutuhan hidup suami isteri dan membentuk keluarga yang bahagia dengan kedua-dua suami isteri sama-sama memegang tanggungjawab terhadap keluarga dan anak-anak.

"Justeru jangan ada di kalangan suami yang cuba mengabui pemahaman isteri kononnya satu pengorbanan bagi mereka dengan jaminan masuk syurga jika membenarkan suami berkahwin lain," katanya.

Beliau berkata demikian kepada pemberita selepas majlis perasmian Simposium Wanita peringkat negeri oleh Raja Perempuan Perlis Tuanku Fauziah Tengku Abdul Rashid di Dewan 2020 di sini hari ini sempena Ulang Tahun Keputeraan Ke-68 Raja Perlis.

Mashitah yang juga seorang daripada panel simposium itu berkata, adalah tidak wajar seseorang suami meletakkan isteri mereka sebagai "pelacur terhormat" sedangkan taat setia tidak boleh diletakkan kepada isteri sahaja sebaliknya suami juga perlu mempunyai sikap taat setia kepada isteri mereka.

Beliau menyifatkan perbuatan sedemikian tidak boleh dibiarkan kerana isteri akan terus teraniaya sedangkan apa yang lebih penting adalah jaminan masa depan keluarga dan anak-anak, bukan semata-mata memuaskan nafsu seks seseorang suami.

"Dalam rumah tangga memang menjadi tanggungjawab isteri melayan suami tetapi jangan pula seseorang suami mengambil kesempatan daripada layanan baik isteri mereka hingga sanggup mempergunakan isteri tersebut untuk memuaskan hawa nafsu sendiri," katanya. - BERNAMA

'Club veered from requirement of Islam on issue of sex'

2011/06/10

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On the same subject, Mashitah said the club had veered from the requirement of Islam on the issue of marital sex as Muslim couples should keep a veil of secrecy over their conjugal acts.

She added that lessons on sexual matters were never a priority for Muslims couples as it was taboo to talk about it openly.

"We have to remember that even blind couples know how to fulfil their sexual needs without watching pornographic videos as learning aids."

She said the club appeared to hold a populist view to seek attention by advocating that wives should treat their husbands "like a first-class prostitute".

OWC international president Dr Rohaya Mohamed had said on Saturday that the club's philosophy was based on the teachings of Prophet Muhammad, which should be put into practice.

"Like polygamy, we realise people will be doubtful. But we are proof that it works but only if we follow closely the teachings of God.

"It was practised effectively by (the late Al-Arqam founder) Ashaari Mohamed and his children," she had said.

Read more: 'Club veered from requirement of Islam on issue of sex' http://www.nst.com.my/nst/articles/4rxo2turn/Article#ixzz1Ozi6kdty

british pun tak ganggu poligami, kahwin awal + nikah siam di mana tiada kes buang bayi berlaku...

http://www.sinarharian.com.my/sh/com/content/story9171977.asp

fitnah dunia... klik imej.

Kecam isteri ibarat pelacur
Oleh Matzidi Dris, Nazura Ngah, Faizatul Farhana Farush Khan dan Sani Kamarudzaman

2011/06/08
Kenyataan Dr Rohaya jatuh imej Islam, nafi hak wanita dalam perkahwinan

KUALA LUMPUR: Kenyataan Naib Presiden Kelab Isteri Taat, Dr Rohaya Mohamed yang mengingatkan golongan isteri supaya patuh dan melayan suami seperti `pelacur kelas pertama’ terus dikecam pelbagai pihak yang melihatnya sebagai cubaan menjatuhkan imej Islam dan menafikan hak wanita dalam perkahwinan.

Timbalan Menteri di Jabatan Perdana Menteri, Datuk Dr Mashitah Ibrahim yang melihat kenyataan itu sebagai usaha merendahkan martabat wanita Islam meminta Pendaftar Pertubuhan meneliti semula pendaftaran kelab berkenaan yang disifatkan menimbulkan rasa tidak senang wanita Islam.

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Really? Would this help prevent husbands from straying and curb social ills? Or is this club an insult to women and humanity?

'Serve husbands like first-class prostitutes'

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'Serve husbands like first-class prostitutes'

2011/06/05
By Rozanna Latiff
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KUALA LUMPUR: A wife must obey and serve her husband like "a first-class prostitute" to keep him from straying and to prevent greater social ills, according to the Obedient Wives' Club.

The Malaysian branch of the club, launched here yesterday, was formed as an answer to social problems such as infidelity, prostitution, domestic violence and abandoned babies, which its members believed stemmed from a lack of belief in God and the failure of women to keep their husbands content.

OWC international vice-president Dr Rohaya Mohamed said women often forget their "wifely duties", including pleasuring their husbands in the bedroom.

"There is a perception in our society today that a wife's duties include being a good cook, cleaner and mother, but there is less emphasis on sexual matters. We are here to change that perception.

"A man married to a woman who is as good or better than a prostitute in bed has no reason to stray," she told reporters after the launch.

Rohaya said the club, currently open to women of all faiths and races, conducted seminars on how to be a good wife and provided individuals and couples with counselling sessions on sustaining their marriage.

It also offered training and sex advice to those who needed them.

"Women who fail to fulfil their husband's needs leave their marriage open to breakdowns. So many men now have girlfriends, mistresses and visit prostitutes.

"A man's appetite, which is greater than women's, cannot be denied. And rather than allowing him to sin, a woman must do all she can to ensure his desires are met."

The OWC's existence has sparked controversy among local women's groups such as Sisters in Islam who have charged the club with perpetuating a culture of women-blaming and male chauvinism.

In defence, Rohaya said the OWC's core beliefs were based on a desire to follow the teachings of Islam.

"We are not blaming women for prostitution or divorce, as we believe God-fearing men would never patronise brothels, or abuse their wives.

"Both sides must fulfil their duties."

Asked on the limits of a woman's loyalty to men who continued to cheat or shirked their duties as husbands, she said a woman should always remain faithful as God's fairness will ensure that she will be rewarded.

"A woman only has to fulfil four conditions to gain entry to heaven: conduct her daily prayers, fast during the holy month of Ramadan, protect her dignity and be obedient to her husband.

"Like Asiah, the wife of the pharaoh, who remained obedient to her husband throughout her life and who eventually went to heaven while he was punished."

The OWC already has 1,000 members worldwide, with 800 in Malaysia.

Founded by Global Ikhwan Sdn Bhd, an off-shoot of the now defunct Islamic religious movement Al-Arqam, OWC was first launched in Jordan on May 1 while a third branch will open in Jakarta, Indonesia on June 19.

The organisation also plans to open branches in Europe, including in London and Rome in the future.

Rohaya admitted that the club's practices and beliefs would find difficulty gaining support in Western countries but said she welcomed the criticism and controversy.

"Everyone has the freedom to voice their opinion as long as they keep their minds open to discussions and different ways of thinking," she said.

The OWC was launched yesterday along with a mass wedding ceremony, involving 10 couples.

Read more: 'Serve husbands like first-class prostitutes' http://www.nst.com.my/nst/articles//14prosi/Article/#ixzz1OPiZ3SIe

Police and Jais monitoring group

2011/06/05

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KUALA LUMPUR: Global Ikhwan Sdn Bhd (GISB), which was founded by former members of deviant group Al-Arqam, is being monitored by authorities after they were found to have revived the sect's activities.

Sources from the police and the Selangor Religious Department when contacted yesterday confirmed that they were monitoring the company's activities and intelligence gathered showed that the group was still continuing with Al-Arqam's teachings.

"The group is being monitored by Jais' officers. From information gathered, the group is still active but operating under different names.

"We have found that the group is conducting its activities under the name of Rufaqa and Global Ikhwan, and is active in Petaling Jaya and Shah Alam," a Jais official said.

A source from Bukit Aman police also confirmed the group is continuing with its activities.

Women's groups criticise club's aims

2011/06/05

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PUTRAJAYA: Women groups and politicians have criticised the club formed to reform disobedient wives who are accused to be the root of social ills.

Women, Family and Community Development Minister Datuk Seri Shahrizat Abdul Jalil said husbands and wives are independent agents responsible for their own actions and it was not the incapacity of women "to obey, serve and entertain" that led to the existence of social ills.

"To hinge fidelity, domestic violence and the fulfilment of a husband's responsibilities purely on a wife's capacity to be obedient, stimulate sexual arousal and prepare food is not only demeaning to wives, but to husbands as well."

While the aim to form clubs to improve oneself should not be discouraged, such a simplistic rationale as that promoted by Obedient Wives' Club was void of an accurate understanding of today's realities, where women are empowered individuals with hopes, dreams and aspirations of their own, she added.

Shahrizat was commenting on a report that Global Ikwan Sdn Bhd, an off-shoot of the banned Al-Arqam movement, had set up the club to help "improve" wives.

Puteri Umno chief Datuk Rosnah Abdul Rashid Shirlin said domestic problems which subsequently led to social ills could not be blamed solely on women.

"There is no need to form such a club.

"It is better for Global Ikhwan to think up better measures to sort out domestic problems."

Sisters in Islam (SIS) considers the formation of the club to be another manifestation of "persistent women-blaming for divorces and sexual assault".

Its acting executive director, Ratna Osman, said research showed that domestic violence happened regardless of a woman's perceived behaviour.

"Abusive men often use women's behaviour as a sick justification but, in the end, their actions are their responsibility."

Ratna said that Prophet Muhammad was well known to have treated his wives well and even helped with housework, while the concept of nusyuz (disobedience) is used for both women and men in the Quran and, therefore, it cannot be assumed to actually mean a woman's disobedience to her husband, as is often the case in codified Muslim family laws.

All Women's Action Society said the suggestion that happy husbands would not abuse wives shows a "lack of understanding towards causes of violence".

Acting president Ho Yock Lin said the club made women sex objects and encouraged husbands to treat wives as sex slaves.

Read more: Women's groups criticise club's aims http://www.nst.com.my/nst/articles/14reac/Article#ixzz1OMnoozXO

Cetak . Emel Rakan .

Kelab Taat Suami galak poligami
Oleh Nazura Ngah dan Norliza Wasilan
bhnews@bharian.com.my
2011/06/11

Isteri dikhuatiri dipaksa patuh demi kepentingan peribadi: Mashitah

KOTA BHARU: Orang ramai perlu menghalusi asas penubuhan Kelab Taat Suami diwujudkan kalangan isteri berpoligami daripada Global Ikhwan Sdn Bhd yang dikaitkan dengan kumpulan al-Arqam.

Lebih membimbangkan, tegas Timbalan Menteri di Jabatan Perdana Menteri, Datuk Dr Mashitah Ibrahim, istilah taat itu boleh disalahertikan sehinggakan isteri dipaksa patuh kepada suami demi kepentingan peribadi, termasuk keinginannya berkahwin ramai.

“Saya tidak menentang poligami sebab itu hukum Allah tetapi perlu dibuat mengikut lunas ditetapkan agama. Kita kena lihat siapa ambil inisiatif gerakkan kelab ini dan asal usulnya yang memang isteri poligami daripada Global Ikhwan iaitu kumpulan Arqam terdahulu yang mengumpulkan isteri supaya taat.

“Kenyataan mereka lebih kepada tujuan ajak orang masuk kelab...hari ini dia kata wanita perlu pakai seksi (depan suami), dulu kata wanita perlu layan suami seperti pelacur. Saya pun tak faham jika ada wanita yang berstoking dan tudung labuh di rumah sebab di rumahlah wanita berpakaian yang terbaik.

“Saya bimbang istilah taat itu disalahertikan...nanti suami minta isteri pinangkan isteri nombor dua. Kalau tidak, nanti tak taat, kalau tak kahwin lagi satu nanti jadi maksiat,” katanya selepas merasmikan Mesyuarat Perwakilan Pergerakan Puteri UMNO Bahagian Kota Bharu Ke-10 2011 di Dewan Sekolah Menengah Tanjung Chat, di sini, semalam.

Beliau mengulas laporan kenyataan Presiden Kelab Taat Suami Malaysia, Fauziah Ariffin, semalam yang mengakui beliau memenuhi keperluan batin suaminya dengan berpakaian menarik dan seksi yang juga cara terbaik memberi layanan kepada suami. Sebelum ini, kenyataan Naib Presidennya, Dr Rohaya Mohamed, mengingatkan isteri supaya melayan suami seperti ‘pelacur kelas pertama’ mendapat kecaman pelbagai pihak termasuk Dr Mashitah yang mahu Pendaftar Pertubuhan meneliti semula kelulusan pendaftaran kelab itu.
Sementara itu di KUALA LUMPUR, pelbagai pihak mahukan kerajaan memantau kelab itu dan kenyataan pemimpinnya bagi mengelak perkembangan ajaran dan fahaman sesat berikutan kelab itu diasaskan bekas pengikut al-Arqam.

Naib Presiden Hal Ehwal Wanita (HELWA) Angkatan Belia Islam Malaysia (ABIM), Fadhlina Siddiq, berkata ketiadaan pemantauan oleh kerajaan memberi peluang kepada pihak tertentu mengembangkan ajaran dan fahaman sesat di negara ini.

Beliau sendiri yang turut ditawarkan keahlian Kelab Taat Suami berkata, tidak sewajarnya institusi perkahwinan disamakan dengan perkhidmatan seks pelacur.

“Tidak selayaknya pelacur disamakan tarafnya dengan seorang isteri dan ketaatan seorang isteri tidak seharusnya diukur kemampuan seksnya kepada suami,” katanya ketika dihubungi di sini, semalam.

Pengerusi Lembaga Kebajikan Perempuan Islam Selangor, Datin Paduka Rakibah Abd Manap, berkata, golongan isteri tidak perlukan kelab itu bagi memberi bimbingan kerana ia boleh mengelirukan.

Cetak . Emel Rakan .

Isteri tak perlu kelab jaga suami
Oleh Nazura Ngah
nazura@bharian.com.my
2011/06/12

Ketaatan bukan hanya ditempat tidur: Salih

KUALA LUMPUR: “Isteri tidak memerlukan mana-mana kelab untuk menunjukkan ketaatan mereka kepada suami kerana mentaati suami adalah perintah Allah semata-mata untuk mendapat keredaan-Nya,” kata pelawak dan pengacara, Salih Yaacob.

Beliau yang baru kembali daripada bercuti di Beijing, selepas mengahwini isteri keempat, Samihah Sheikh Amy, 25, akhir bulan lalu, berkata isteri hanya diwajibkan untuk mentaati suami selagi suami tidak melanggar akidah, akhlak dan syariat Islam.

Malah katanya, ketaatan kepada suami juga bukan hanya di tempat tidur semata-mata kerana nikmat kasih sayang dalam perkahwinan akan dirasai jika Allah reda dengan pasangan yang melaksanakan perintah-Nya.

“Walaupun isteri adalah hak mutlak suami, haram untuk suami mengadakan hubungan kelamin jika tidak mendapat keredaan daripada isteri kerana golongan Hawa dilahirkan bukan sekadar untuk menjadi tempat golongan Adam memuaskan nafsu mereka.

“Jika ada kelab yang ditubuhkan untuk mengawal tindak tanduk isteri, dibimbangi mereka yang menyertai kelab itu akan lebih mengikut peraturan dan garis panduan ditetapkan kelab berkenaan, sekali gus meminggirkan tuntutan al-Quran dan as-Sunnah,” katanya kepada Berita Minggu, semalam.

Beliau mengulas kenyataan Presiden Kelab Taat Suami cawangan Malaysia, Fauziah Ariffin yang mengakui memenuhi keperluan batin suaminya dengan berpakaian menarik dan seksi yang juga cara terbaik memberi layanan kepada suami.
Sebelum ini Naib Presiden Kelab Taat Suami, Dr Rohaya Mohamed mengingatkan isteri supaya melayan suami seperti `pelacur kelas pertama’ mendapat kecaman pelbagai pihak.

Salih yang mengecam kenyataan menyamakan isteri dengan pelacur berkata penubuhan Kelab Taat Suami dan kenyataan pemimpin kelab itu akan memberi persepsi negatif terhadap golongan yang mengamalkan poligami sepertinya, sekali gus mengundang tanggapan tidak baik masyarakat.

Beliau yang pernah ditawarkan untuk menyertai Persatuan Poligami iaitu persatuan yang difahamkan ada kaitan dengan Kelab Taat Suami berkata kehidupan berpoligami bersama empat isteri bukan berlandaskan kepada nafsu semata-mata sebaliknya kerana kehendak dan keizinan Allah untuk beliau berbuat demikian.

“Saya tidak mengambil sebarang ubat-ubatan atau makanan tambahan untuk menaikkan nafsu syahwat, sebaliknya nafsu saya timbul daripada hati dan niat yang bersih kerana Allah yang membenarkan dan memberikan modal untuk saya menyampaikan nafkah zahir dan batin, barulah isteri dapat mentaati Allah dan suami dengan akidah, iman dan keyakinan,” katanya.

Katanya, perkahwinan yang dibina bersama empat isteri terutama isteri yang baru dikahwininya tidak berlaku secara sengaja kerana ia bukan bermula atas dasar cinta sesama manusia tetapi kerana cinta mereka kepada Allah.


Polis siasat Kelab Taat Suami

PENDANG: Polis menyiasat dakwaan mengaitkan Kelab Taat Suami yang diwujudkan di kalangan isteri berpoligami, sama ada mempunyai kaitan dengan kumpulan al-Arqam dalam usaha meniupkan kembali ajaran kumpulan terbabit kepada rakyat di negara ini.

Menteri Dalam Negeri, Datuk Seri Hishammuddin Hussein, berkata sehingga kini pihaknya belum menerima laporan penubuhan Kelab Taat Suami itu mampu menjejaskan keselamatan negara.

Katanya, sesiapa saja termasuk pertubuhan itu yang melanggar undang-undang, tidak akan terlepas daripada dikenakan tindakan.

“Saya terima laporan tetapi belum lihat ia (kelab Taat Suami) boleh jejaskan keselamatan negara.

“Jika kumpulan ini kita dapati melanggar udang-undang atau lebih serius lagi menjejaskan keselamatan negara, saya percaya polis tidak akan teragak-agak untuk mengambil tindakan.

“Saya juga minta kalau (Timbalan Menteri di Jabatan Perdana Menteri) Datuk Mashitah (Ibrahim) jika ada maklumat mengenai perkara ini supaya menyalurkan kepada kita,” katanya selepas merasmikan mesyuarat UMNO Bahagian Pendang di Kompleks Paya Mak Inson di sini, semalam.

Beliau berkata demikian mengulas laporan akhbar kelmarin yang meminta orang ramai memperhalusi asas penubuhan Kelab Taat Suami yang diwujudkan isteri berpoligami daripada Global Ikhwan yang dikaitkan dengan kumpulan al-Arqam.

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Bangga hilang dara

Oleh Muhd Izawan Baharin dan Mior Azlan Kamarulbaid
am@hmetro.com.my

KUALA LUMPUR: Pengakuan ‘berani mati’ seorang remaja perempuan berusia 14 tahun yang berbangga kehilangan dara di blog miliknya menyebabkan dia dikecam hebat pengguna Internet sejak beberapa hari lalu.

Remaja itu dipercayai memaparkan pengakuan beraninya di blog pada Disember 2010, namun baru-baru ini secara tiba-tiba popular apabila tulisannya diulas beberapa blog lain selain laman sosial facebook dan twitter.

Menerusi tulisan blognya, remaja itu mendedahkan dia pernah melakukan hubungan seks dan pengakuannya itu adalah satu kejujuran. Malah, dia juga tidak kisah dengan tanggapan orang lain.

Malah akaun khusus facebook turut dibuka pihak tertentu untuk memberi maklum balas, sebahagian besar mengecamnya, namun ada juga memihak kepada remaja itu.

Pada mulanya, remaja Melayu yang mendakwa tinggal di Puchong berani membalas kecaman yang dilemparkan kepadanya dan bersikap tidak mempedulikan ratusan komen negatif pembaca.

Bagaimanapun, dia akhirnya memadam pengakuan beraninya itu kelmarin, mungkin akibat tertekan. Harian Metro cuba menghubungi remaja itu menggunakan facebook dan twitter, tetapi gagal.

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Program bendung kes buang bayi di sekolah Ogos depan


2011/04/21
KOTA KINABALU: Kementerian Kesihatan akan melaksanakan satu program baru membabitkan semua sekolah di negara ini bertujuan membendung gejala sosial di kalangan pelajar termasuk kes buang bayi.

Timbalan Menterinya, Datuk Rosnah Abdul Rashid Shirlin, berkata jika semuanya berjalan lancar, program itu dijangka dilaksanakan pada Ogos ini. "Pihak kementerian rasa terpanggil untuk lebih proaktif dalam menangani masalah gejala sosial di kalangan generasi muda dan berharap semua pihak terutamanya pelajar, ibu bapa dan golongan remaja memberikan kerjasama. "Kita rancang buat program ini dan secara tidak langsung akan membabitkan reproduktif sains yang berkait rapat dengan usaha kita untuk membendung gejala sosial," katanya kepada pemberita pada majlis penyampaian anugerah pelajar cemerlang SMK Perempuan Likas, dekat sini hari ini.

Rosnah berkata, pencegahan adalah lebih baik daripada merawat terutama dalam kes buang bayi.

"Di peringkat kementerian, kita perkasakan program pencegahan...bukan sahaja menumpukan kepada penyakit berjangkit tetapi juga aspek sosial yang membabitkan kelahiran luar nikah, kerana dari segi kesihatan kita bimbang fenomena yang berlaku," katanya. - BERNAMA

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Pasca modenisme bahayakan ummah


2011/04/20

Aliran pengaruhi dengan seruan pinggirkan agama

KUALA LUMPUR: Umat Islam kini sedang berdepan dengan pelbagai cabaran yang bersifat luaran dan dalaman berbentuk pemikiran yang datang dari kebudayaan asing iaitu aliran pasca modenisme.

Ketua Pengarah Institut Kefahaman Islam Malaysia (IKIM), Datuk Nik Mustapha Nik Hassan, berkata fahaman pasca modenisme itu menyatakan bahawa manusia mempunyai kebebasan mutlak untuk menjalani kehidupan tanpa sebarang ikatan kepada sebarang bentuk ajaran agama.

“Aliran pasca modenisme bermula daripada pergolakan pemikiran Barat yang menentang pengaruh kekuasaan gereja serta manusia bebas melakukan apa saja tanpa perlu memikirkan kebajikan orang lain,” katanya ketika merasmikan Majlis Seminar Wanita dan Cabaran Aliran Pasca Modenisasi: Penilaian Dari Perspektif Islam di Dewan Besar IKIM di sini, semalam.

Turut hadir ialah Timbalan Ketua Pengarah (Dasar) Jabatan Kemajuan Islam (JAKIM), Othman Mustapha dan Timbalan Ketua Pengarah IKIM, Prof Datin Paduka Zaleha Kamaruddin.

Nik Mustapha berkata, aliran pasca modenisme menjadi satu cabaran besar kerana ia sudah mempengaruhi dunia Islam dengan seruan untuk meminggirkan agama.
“Dengan berkembang pasca modenisme pada era globalisasi ini, maka fahaman dan gerakan kebebasan manusia semakin berkembang.
“Impak daripada kemunculan pasca modenisme ini juga menyaksikan kemunculan gerakan feminis atau hak asasi persamaan jantina,” katanya.

Beliau berkata, golongan terbabit mengatakan bahawa dalam al-Quran amat menekankan persamaan antara lelaki dan perempuan.

“Bagi golongan terbabit, persamaan bererti penyamarataan atau kesamaan hak dalam semua bidang yang diceburi oleh lelaki dan perempuan, oleh itu semua bentuk perbezaan yang wujud dalam apa perkara sekalipun dianggap diskriminasi,” katanya.

Nik Mustapha turut menjelaskan bahawa di dalam agama Islam, persamaan tidak semestinya bermakna penyamarataan.

Beliau berkata, permasalahan dalaman yang ketara berpunca dari kedangkalan ilmu pengetahuan, kefahaman dan penghayatan agama yang akhirnya memberi kesan kepada pelbagai aspek kehidupan sosial, perundingan, politik dan ekonomi. – BERNAMA

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Larangan burqa di Perancis sekadar mainan politik
Oleh Shamsiah Sanin
edisimingguan@bharian.com.my
2011/04/17

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  PRESIDEN Perancis, Nicolas Sarkozy menunjukkan isyarat tangan ketika menyampaikan ucapan di Versailles, 12 April lalu.

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  SEORANG kanak-kanak berdiri berhampiran sepanduk Parti Jamaat-e-Islami Pakistan ketika tunjuk perasaan membantah pengharaman memakai burqa oleh kerajaan Perancis.

Sarkozy cuba sekat parti berhaluan kanan terus eksploitasi isu imigran, Islam

PADA 11 April lalu, Perancis menjadi negara Eropah pertama secara rasmi mengharamkan pemakaian penutup muka yang dikenali burqa, purdah atau niqab oleh wanita Islam, selepas rang undang-undang mengenainya diluluskan tahun lalu.

Undang-undang baru itu segera menimbulkan kemarahan kumpulan dan organisasi Islam yang mendakwa tindakan bertujuan memencilkan umat Islam, manakala penyokong pengharaman berkata ia wajar diambil bagi membolehkan pendatang asing berintergrasi lebih baik dengan masyarakat setempat.

Sebelum ini pada 2004, Perancis mengharamkan pemakaian simbol agama secara di sekolah awam. Ia termasuk pemakaian tudung, salib, serban penganut Sikh dan sebarang simbol agama lain.

Keputusan yang diambil Presiden Perancis Nicolas Sarkozy, sebenarnya bukan sesuatu yang mengejutkan jika kita melihat hala tuju politik di Eropah.

Isu kontroversi pengharaman burqa mempunyai tiga dimensi dalam politik Perancis. Pertama, tradisi sekular yang amat kuat di negara itu, kedua, kedatangan dan penghijrahan pendatang asing yang menjadi isu politik penting di semua negara Eropah Barat dan ketiga, integrasi etnik dan agama kumpulan minoriti dengan budaya kebangsaan Perancis.

Kebanyakan parti politik di Eropah, jika pun bukan semua, cuba menggunakan perbezaan pendapat mengenai kebanjiran kaum pendatang untuk mendapatkan faedah politik.
Antaranya termasuk kaedah menghalang kebanjiran pendatang dan pekerja asing, memperketat undang-undang imigresen, antaranya permohonan untuk menjadi warganegara selain meningkatkan tekanan ke atas golongan pendatang agar berintegrasi dengan nilai Eropah.

Tanpa ragu, dasar ini mendapat sokongan besar penduduk awam Perancis. Selain itu nilai sekular menjadi pegangan kuat masyarakat Perancis.

Sarkozy melihat langkah yang diambilnya sebagai satu kemenangan dalam usaha memperkukuh tradisi Eropah dan beliau semakin yakin apabila keputusannya mendapat sokongan besar rakyat Perancis.

Tanpa diragui, Islam dan pendatang akan menjadi dua isu utama dalam kempen pilihan raya presiden Perancis pada 2012.

Mengikut tinjauan terbaru parti Kesatuan Pergerakan Popular (UMP) pimpinan Sarkozy tidak mendapat sokongan menggalakkan dan semakin ketinggalan di belakang Parti Barisan Kebangsaan (NF). Berikutan itu beliau terpaksa mencari bahan perdebatan ‘lebih panas’ untuk menarik perhatian pengundi Perancis.

Kerajaan Perancis mengakui bahawa hanya kira-kira 2,000 wanita Islam memakai burqa berbanding lima juta penduduk Islam di negara itu.

Secara jelas undang-undang itu hanya sekadar ‘isyarat simbolik’ kerana ia tidak akan membabitkan majoriti wanita Islam di negara itu.

Apa yang pasti setakat ini ia tidak berkesan. Kerajaan Perancis sekadar cuba menangani dan menyelesaikan isu yang sebenarnya bukan suatu masalah.

Hanya sekumpulan kecil wanita Islam memakai burqa (Islam tidak mewajibkan pemakaian burqa).

Pada masa sama, larangan ini hanya bertujuan untuk menunjukkan bahawa nilai Barat mempunyai kuasa lebih besar hingga boleh memencilkan minoriti Islam di Perancis.

Ketika sebilangan ahli politik Perancis mempertahankan larangan ini sebagai tindakan membebaskan wanita daripada ‘penindasan’ hakikatnya, kebanyakan wanita negara itu memakai burqa atas kerelaan sendiri.

Dari perspektif ini, undang-undang itu mungkin gagal memenuhi matlamatnya untuk mempromosi integrasi, sebaliknya akan lebih memencilkan umat Islam.

Sejak hari pertama undang-undang itu dikuatkuasakan hingga kini, hanya dua wanita ditahan tetapi bukan atas kesalahan memakai burqa, sebaliknya kerana menyertai tunjuk perasaan membantah larangan itu dan enggan bersurai. Mereka dibebaskan beberapa jam kemudian.

Seorang lagi wanita, Kenza Drider, tiba di Paris dari bandar Avignon dengan menaiki kereta api dan memakai burqa, untuk menyertai tunjuk perasaan itu tanpa dicabar polis atau pihak berkuasa.

“Saya berbuat begini untuk menguji polis Perancis dan sebagai amaran terbuka bahawa saya akan terus memakai burqa. Undang-undang yang dikuatkuasakan adalah serangan kepada kebebasan hak peribadi dan agama saya,” katanya.

Di bawah undang-undang yang baru itu, mereka yang didapati melanggar peraturan, boleh didenda hingga 150 Euro (RM655), manakala seseorang yang memaksa orang lain memakai burqa boleh dihukum penjara hingga dua tahun.

Penganalisis berkata adalah amat sukar untuk membuktikan bahawa seseorang wanita dipaksa memakai burqa.

Undang-undang baru itu tidak membenarkan anggota polis atau pihak berkuasa menanggalkan burqa secara kekerasan atau memaksa mereka membukanya dikhalayak.
Mereka sebaliknya dikehendaki membawa wanita terbabit ke balai polis untuk disoal sebelum tindakan lanjut diambil.

Larangan yang dikuatkuasakan di Perancis boleh dianggap longgar atau tidak mempunyai kesan secara langsung, jika dibandingkan dengan peraturan keras pengharaman memakai tudung kepala yang dikuatkuasakan Turki, sebuah negara yang 95 peratus penduduknya beragama Islam sejak 1923.

Lebih menyedihkan, larangan dilaksanakan oleh kerajaan yang ditadbir secara keseluruhannya oleh pemimpin beragama Islam dan sehingga kini tidak banyak yang dapat dilakukan untuk mengubahnya.

Pada Mei 1999, pengharaman pemakaian tudung menimbulkan kegemparan di negara itu , apabila Merve Kackci dihalang daripada mengangkat sumpah sebagai ahli parlimen kerana memakai tudung dan enggan mematuhi arahan meninggalkan dewan.

Perdana Menteri Bulen Ecevit menuduh beliau melanggar prinsip sekular dan beliau kemudian didakwa di mahkamah atas dakwaan provokasi kebencian agama.

Beberapa bulan kemudian kerajaan melucutkan kerakyatannya sebagai warga Turki apabila beliau didapati mempunyai kerakyatan Amerika.

Wanita yang hafaz al-Quran itu, kini menjadi profesor pelawat di Universiti Washington dan meneruskan kempen membantah larangan memakai tudung di Turki. Pada 2007 Mahkamah Hak Asasi Eropah, memutuskan bahawa tindakan kerajaan mengusir beliau dari bangunan parlimen Turki, melanggar hak asasi.

Pada 2000, seorang pelajar Nuray Bezirgan dijatuhi hukuman penjara enam bulan oleh mahkamah Turki atas dakwaan mengingkari arahan apabila memakai tudung ketika menduduki peperiksaan akhir. Mahkamah Hak Asasi bagaimanapun menyokong keputusan itu dan berpendapat ia sesuatu yang perlu.

Laporan Negara Turki 2007 menyatakan, wanita yang memakai tudung dan penyokong mereka berdepan tindakan disiplin dan risiko kehilangan kerja di sektor awam.
Mahkamah Agung Turki pada 2007, mahkamah memutuskan untuk menafikan hak seorang guru wanita daripada dinaikkan pangkat apabila beliau didapati memakai tudung di luar waktu bekerja.

Seorang pegawai imigresen di Kedutaan Kanada di Ankara pernah menyatakan bahawa kakitangan kerajaan tidak dibenarkan memakai tudung ketika bertugas, tetapi wanita bertudung boleh bekerja di sektor swasta.

Pada April 2005, seorang profesor sains politik dengan pengkhususan membabitkan isu wanita di Universiti Bogazici di Istanbul berkata, wanita yang memakai tudung di negara itu menghadapi kesukaran mendapat kerja dalam kedua-dua sektor swasta dan kerajaan.

Ramai diantara mereka juga gagal mendapatkan rawatan di hospital kerajaan hanya semata-mata kerana memakai tudung.

Berbanding Perancis, keadaan di Turki jauh lebih sukar bagi wanita yang bertudung, apabila undang-undang dilaksanakan dengan keras dan ketat, sekali gus menjejaskan sistem kehidupan mereka.

Pertubuhan Islam dan kumpulan aktivis yang prihatin, perlu berusaha agar wanita Islam di Turki berpeluang menikmati kebebasan melaksanakan tuntutan agama dan memilih jalan hidup mereka sendiri.

Bagaimana masa depan pengharaman memakai burqa di Perancis? Apa yang jelas, bantahan demi bantahan yang datang seluruh pelusuk dunia, pasti menjadikan pelaksanaannya semakin sukar.