Mashitah selar suami peralat isteri
2011/06/08
KANGAR: Timbalan Menteri di Jabatan Perdana Menteri, Datuk Dr Mashitah Ibrahim, menyelar segelintir suami yang menjadikan isteri semata-mata tempat melepaskan nafsu seks tanpa memikirkan kepentingan hidup berkeluarga.Katanya, perkahwinan yang digalakkan oleh Islam adalah untuk menjamin keutuhan hidup suami isteri dan membentuk keluarga yang bahagia dengan kedua-dua suami isteri sama-sama memegang tanggungjawab terhadap keluarga dan anak-anak.
Mashitah yang juga seorang daripada panel simposium itu berkata, adalah tidak wajar seseorang suami meletakkan isteri mereka sebagai "pelacur terhormat" sedangkan taat setia tidak boleh diletakkan kepada isteri sahaja sebaliknya suami juga perlu mempunyai sikap taat setia kepada isteri mereka.
Beliau menyifatkan perbuatan sedemikian tidak boleh dibiarkan kerana isteri akan terus teraniaya sedangkan apa yang lebih penting adalah jaminan masa depan keluarga dan anak-anak, bukan semata-mata memuaskan nafsu seks seseorang suami.
"Dalam rumah tangga memang menjadi tanggungjawab isteri melayan suami tetapi jangan pula seseorang suami mengambil kesempatan daripada layanan baik isteri mereka hingga sanggup mempergunakan isteri tersebut untuk memuaskan hawa nafsu sendiri," katanya. - BERNAMA
'Club veered from requirement of Islam on issue of sex'
On the same subject, Mashitah said the club had veered from the requirement of Islam on the issue of marital sex as Muslim couples should keep a veil of secrecy over their conjugal acts.
She added that lessons on sexual matters were never a priority for Muslims couples as it was taboo to talk about it openly.
"We have to remember that even blind couples know how to fulfil their sexual needs without watching pornographic videos as learning aids."
She said the club appeared to hold a populist view to seek attention by advocating that wives should treat their husbands "like a first-class prostitute".
OWC international president Dr Rohaya Mohamed had said on Saturday that the club's philosophy was based on the teachings of Prophet Muhammad, which should be put into practice.
"Like polygamy, we realise people will be doubtful. But we are proof that it works but only if we follow closely the teachings of God.
"It was practised effectively by (the late Al-Arqam founder) Ashaari Mohamed and his children," she had said.
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